The most awkward time in a threesome or couple dating must be the time before you jumping into bed. When everyone is naked, there will be no awkwardness. Just imagine you three sitting together and thinking about undressing each other while still sit there thinking with no one moves. What to do in that period of time to ease the embarrassment? Here are things you can do.
You can have a dinner together and play some sexy games. Cook some delicious food for each person and sit comfortably. You don't need to sit on the desk. You can sit in the sofa, which can make everyone relaxed. Try to start some sexy topics or watch some porno movies and something like that.
Once the atmosphere gets hot, you can start feed each other or lick food from the body of your partner. In this way, the third person can easily join in the party. Have some drink can also ease yourself and boost your sexual desire. But be careful with it. Do not drink too much. You don't want your threesome turn into a drama and also you want to remember it in the future.
Play some games such as Spin the Bottle, Truth or Dare or Strip Poker. Games will get everyone high and also are very good ways to eliminate awkwardness. Besides, games can help build intimacy. Be sure to prepare lots of condoms, lubricant and toys to ensure the fun in this threesome hookup party. Always change condom when you move from anus to vagina and never share toys. Therefore, you might need lots of condoms. Plus, use different condom when you penetrate different people.
You can do massage for each other. Take turns to be the receiver. One person lies down and have the other two do massage for him/her. This is not regular massage. It may contain sensitive part and genital massages. Use some lubricant to boost the pleasure. This will definitely be the favorable pre-game before the actual threesome or couples dating party.
Compliment each other. Do not be niggardly with your compliments. You can say to your partner that how much you love him/her. It will efficiently decrease the competitiveness between your partner and the third person. On the other hand, you can praise the third. For example, you have such a nice butt. I love your breasts. They are so big, etc.
Do not leave anyone out and never be involved in a threesome where you are left out by the other two. Always make sure that you are in a threesome, not twosome. All three person must be involved. Everyone has two hands and a mouth. There must be some way to make everyone feel included.